sunnuntai 29. joulukuuta 2019

Mourning an atom bomb

Mourning an atom bomb is different from mourning a person's death,since the situation continues for years and it matters enermously, is the task  of the mourning to prevent further atom bombs. In the 1940's and later such mourning was lightened by the peace movement which made the situation less dangerous. But as peace is valued too much, it becomes difficult to prevent malicious deeds, and so across years there came a new danger of malicious deeds causing nuclear bombings. Peace as a value is important, but now we ought to solve also this other question.

It is likely that an atom bomb may cause deaths also furher away when people dependent on that area suffer a lack of luck, a lack of good environment. Also the changes in values may cause very different circumstancies for people far away.

Religions offer help in such situations and in danger of such. But people in different cultures are very different, and so religions in different places are different too, and fit together via civilized ways anmd civilized wisdom. 

How long mourning lasts

In thos neighbourhood lived a woman with a big black dog with a baby like charcater. In the summer they came out of their hot apartment to the shadow of the house and sat there cooling just about all days. Last year around New Year the dog died and she took immediately a new dog but spitz type crossbreed, quite dark in colour. She mourned all the year as if the death had just happened. Now that a year has passed, she is like a person who just came out of a room where someone just died, so much "over" it, so little. First she was in expression for months like out of her mind like in the first moment when a dear one had just died.
I wonder, did in the New Year someone else first die (got shot?), for examplesome younger generation person who would have wanted to get rid of this place and it's ways, and so the big black dog got a lack of luck from it and died without former warning, and so the woman's ordinary ways did not continue, somehow the spirit was lacking, the nice home like ways lacking, even though the environment was much the same.
Can it be that when people mourn the death of their child for a long time, they have gotten used to living just in home circles, being active, skilled, communicating, being rewarded for skills in just family circles, and have less skill and abilities in the wider world. And so if the child dies, their sphere of activity suffers a lot?
I have lost only more distant relatives andets, and tended to mourn only for a quite short period. I am not so social, I do not feel well and free in social relationships, and so when I get left alone, my other activities, my wider sphere of life starts running much better, so that ity carries my life and I am not left longing for the old times. Hobbies, outdoors, going to places, job, reading the newspaper, music, new peaople, new kinds of things to do and new content to life, new books.