In the news today there was an interview of some man (competing in Olympics in shootibg) who had just list his father, and the question seemed to be: why does one's father's death make one feel so? https://yle.fi/a/74-20101779 I guess that there are two things disturbing observing the situation right. One is talking about ordinary things and then suddenly being asked about the sorrow which is still to fresh in one's mind, so one does not know which attitude would suit the conversation. Another factor is that mahbe the world is of spirit and when someone close dies, they may have continued lufe kn a separate world, so maybe your sorrow is like yoyr father feeling sorrow of having list a child, yoy, and at the same time worry do children get along without him, even though that is maybe needless when the child is old enough to live on one's own, but maybe that sorrow too gets mixed with the thoughts of the fathers of young children comparing, is there any need to worry when a child is this old.
