From my Christmas gnome skills blog

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d14.   

An elderly man's first thoughts when his spouce has just died. Living long together as a family, if it is a happy family  creates strong habits, the life together is largely in the things done. And if one liked the things done, the way of life, one is likely to continue such when one is left alone, and so the sorrow gets gone through only slowly as the sphere of life changes on some of it's sides to something new with which is good to live. If some of the habits were only the spouce's likings, such are likely to give room to new kinds of aress of life with which it is good for one to live. It is also good to wish well for the deceased in a kind of civiliced polite way, since such is good if there is life after death, somehow one is less fractured then, life just was together and continued separate ways, wishing both well.  

d15.   Death at war time is a different thing to think through, and even more different it is as these modern times. At wartime many die and life circumstancies in the society and in the individual lives change for many. The first thought that comes to mind that it isn't good that so many die in a war. One should know better what to fight for and how to safeguard the rest of life from too much harm. Safeguarding basic healthy life I guess ought to be a common value and well known skill in the countries. Some soldiers fight to make a suicide, such does not sound in any way beneficial to the country, it arises just a thought that it is a pity that he had such a suffering and hope that he finds rest if there is some kind of life after death. The basic advkce for a soldier in the frontline would be to keep enough distance to the enemy's fire and keep eyes open, stay out of harms way if you can and remember that many die from fire from their own lines. Basic advice is don't trust without safety precautions. In the wartime many die and it may happen that people just feel that there are much more scarcely people of their own natiln than before, and culture changes both because of the times and because of foreign cultural influencies, so people propably mourn lost luves together with the lost cultural ways of living, kind of wondering why could things not have stayed the old culture's way. Wartime likelily arises thoughts of betrayals amobg one's own country, of why good landscape like view with basic life safeguarded, why such would trust technical lying people who produce just harm, upon whose deeds one cannot build a society. It propably also places attentiln on that straighforward solutions suit children in army but are often not safe enough if there are adults along, and one ponders what to think of the possibility of a child to choose how one dies, child's own fate, sometimes some things just have to be done, like a child going yo the war if the child is most suppirting, causing such a war. 

d16.   In order that life would be good to live, one ought to live wisely and with feeling according to one's ages old nature, do things for the world to be good to live in, for all fairly, now and in the future, and in doing so one ought to take care that one lives a good life while one so does. Only then it makes sense, and only then the influencies to others are good and with wisdom of life. 

d17.   29th of July 2023   There is a beautiful emotional very famous old song which Konsta Jylhä composed for the memory of his violin player father.

Quietened violin

The violin has quietened

Playing has ceased

Which formerly twingling sensitively sounded

Joys of humans

Sorrows of hearts

The most beautiful chords brought to life

Like only a violin can be played

Now violin alone

Longing on it's wall

Is remembering the one who

Slept already away

He formerly with his violin stick

Caressed his music instrument

To most beautiful chords' 

Charm's state of mind got people

Like only a violin master

Can get

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Children who like to play some music instrument tend to like this song, thinking that such as violin master's lifetime work is something worthwhile to do in one's life and a suitable foregigure for them even if they aim to some entirely different profession. 

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Learntalents.blogspot.com 

About a corpse that does not decay

 What i have read and seen a picture of a corpse that does not decay, that has been a person cobtinually in a spiritual mood, as if sensitively alive spiritually. And liking such light sleep, it's sensations of people passing by with some distance, kind of tuned to such life. And such life with a strong continuous emphazis on spiritual virtues, seen as a natural major current of that person's life. 

From my other blog

  From my text Skills of Christmas gnomes, part 14. Learntalents.blogspot.com 

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N78.   16th of July 2022   These are black and white old dreams or vague memories about unwoundedness when shot. In spring 1999 I lived in Helsinki and planned to continue to farming work. I loved sports, nature, music, poetry and wisdom of life. I had read quite many books about Zen Buddhism and Stephen Mitchell's English translation of the old Chinesd classic Tao-te-ching. I had also read at least one book about healing with hands and st least some book about ghosts. 

The vague old memory says that i was jnexpectedly shot in a crowdy place across the street. I noticed it beforehand and managed to somehow milden the shot away from the central body. It hit me with small bullet in the side muscles and produced a small hole. I changed place out of sighr, wished well in the world and adviced my body to heal the wound a luttle bit like the religiously inclined books, so that the neighbouring parts of the body would heal the wound plus good will in the wide world, and also being sporty physically fit helped. In a minute or two the wound had stopped bleeding, but i was quite at loss about what had happened. Later i did not remember it but there was bullet hole in my coat. After that i have had lits of problems of the psychology professionals, for years and tens of years. 

In 2009 i had just that summer moved to Savlnlinna with my pets. There was a forest pstch jyst outside ghe outdoor of tge apartment building. I was no longer so sporty but i longer for sports and nature, so i once started running from the stairs to the foredt patch and i was maybe 10 to 20 meters away when some little bird and some sturdy woman with an lld fashioned gun at the stairs said that one should not run kn ghe forest, and i heard a bang and felt pushed forward and had thd picture in mind that i had been shot in tge muddle of my central body by a bullet used for hunting moose, a bullet which opens like a flower. I thought that i wilö not let my body conyinue like there is a big wound, but instead commanded it to cobyknue with the old picture of a healthy body and parts nesr by correcting, healing the body back to what was normal to it. So i rose up immediately and tidied my clothes helping the neighbouribg areas' ibfluencies cure the wound. Then i continued walking. But some humans complained of such. Someone brought me my dogs said they mudt hear of this. I continued on a walk with my dogs going on a dtreet at the other side of the house, just walkkng home. But some maybe 20 meter at our back was a man with a pistol and he shot me and i healed it and then he shot again and shot my dogs tpo so i taught my dogs too to heal such. And from the window of the house came somebody's a few meters long snake which came as a surface upon me and wanted to learn the same. Later i remember wondering why my tshirt kn a closet had some blod in it. Part of the time i was dizzy. 

I no longer have such skills. I wrote today about the death of my miracle healing Japanese spitz dog Vaapukka. I guess these subjects connect to me having a dark brown T-shirt today, while the flowrry skirt is wise.

All people do not wish so well in the wide world. So one who does, is from the point of view of warfare quite much for peace. In addition healthy sporty ways of living demand some amount of individuality, maybe a lot, so that it is likely to be an infividual thinking of the society and of the world, instead of a group. 

N79.   17th of July 2022   I translate here what I wrote yesterday about the death of my miracle healing Japanese sputz dog Vaapukka.

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"Vaapukka died a little bit over three years ago in Savonlinna where we had lived for years. It was a warm summer day but not hot, friday 7th of June 2019. Under a week earlier we had lived in Savonlinna exactly 10 years. Under two weeks esrlier Vaapukka bwcame 11 and 1/2 years old. Two days or two weeks earlier had Vaapukka noticed that the boy whom Vaapukka wanted to be in his next lufe, had already begun his lufe and he would have two weeks time to be in time for that. The previous Saturday Vaapukka had composed a fine melody about healing a wheel chair patient back to walking, it seemed to think note by note, like EA first aid according to the subject, A like religiousness F# somehow fine lufe etc, and he planned to compose a tango about how fascinating are the roads toward healing, which he well could havw had the skills for. We were leisirely on an afternoon walk, and near a kiosk like shop by the roadside he saw a papercover of icecream, which he smelled and thought that nice fat woman, such too already here, he could well leave. Vaapukka had earluer said that he could cobyinye to a dog of his type's fat nursing professionals, but that he couldn't then return because too much bactiria coming from them. Vaapukka was a miracle hwaler via some spiritual connection, earlier 2 hours a day which was a burden but he survived it, but for the last spring 4 hours  day which wss too heavy work liad and took away some protectiln, and so it one day came to inflyence me and my apricot poodle badly toward ill, and so we thought that we cannit luve with it that way. That was the first so big critique toward it but did not cobtinye, but it made Vaapukka think of moving to luve with nyrsing professionals. Vaapukka asked us to walk to the church, like we had often walked, but he instead lay down at the crossroads to the graveyard, and then toward home. We went outdoors to the lawn kn a shelter of a tree and Vaapukka helped via some spiritual connection short-nosed dogs which suffered from the heat. Then we rose the stairs to our home in the 3rd floor and Vaapukka wanted me to shower it to cool it. Outdoors had a man ( maybe journalist ) who drinks lots of coffee been enemy like toward the white Vaapukka, and nesr the stairs were two old countryside women who seemed to have some cunning plans. I had the whole previous night been disturbed by images of an Indian woman who kept cafeteria where I often drank milk coffee without knowing why I drank it, attacking me, and so I was only half fit to the everyday lufe. The water hit as cold Vaapukka's stomach and he got breathing difficultues like counttyside women. It circled my 1-room apartment's room by the window and went to an alcove where he often lay, and it had hyperventilation. It seemed that on some spiritual side two British dogs it had helped, maybe a boxer and a French buldog or Boston terrier, had decided to be dominant and raped it, and it's tongue was slightly blue. It was left laying down erect, chin against the floor, and seemed to be present and lustening but was there still the next day at noon. Now later i noticed that i had two day esrluer written to my gnome skills text about my dogs, that they say vuh but don't fight for their life but instead have social snills of companiln dogs, and that my Japanese spitz once fought with a german shepherd, lost but unwounded, which is why Vaapukka begun to fear a new fight. I had also written to the gnome skklls text advices about bulding skills, and it was in the air that the British build a cathedral to which they wanted to rob Vaapukka's healubg skills.  

I tried to find out possible ways to bury a dog but those were all much too expensive. The hoyse repairs man brought a black plastic sack and i lifted the dog to it. The hoyse repairs man took it away. Later there wss at the floor of the garbage shelter flowers like in the Nunn monastery Lintula but more there.

 

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Euthanacy i.e. killing out of mercy is not a good idea

 "   K24.   3rd of March 2022   Since life after death exist and may be similar to life before death, if one is deep in trouble, it isn't necessarily a good choice for friends and supporters to arrange you getting killed, since so you may lose the compassionate support but stsy in trouble. Instead one ought to kill some of the evil attackers or cause them harm  so that the world would be a better place to live in and extra support really would make things better.  "

Learntalents.blogspot.com 

 

If someone wants to die

 This way of waking from desth is of person's own choice. The dead or nearly dead person must oneself lighten one's way of living and one's relationship to the world and make it livelier, in order to wake from desth and revover. But if one wsnts to die, there is the problem that life after death exists and is in many cases similar to life before death, even though thecreason for death may have been erased awsy. But one can dream of life after death that one wants to choose, for example lufe as some animal or in different life circumstancies or as finally dead without lufe after death. One must dream so many times  be very much so inclined and already prepared to leave everything behind and start a new life for example as a bird youngster  insect or even as a young tree. There are Russian tales about young maiden orwhstever having turned to a tree. I once looked absentmindedly out of the window to a near by forest pstch, and there was a man standing there, admiring the trees, and he seemed pleased at lufe so but his life otherwise seemed a burden  and he was left standing there quite a while pleasantly forest like, and when i looked again there was a young tree there where he had stood and the tree was like him and it seemed that he liked life so. 

If you want a better life, you could try reading my text Skills of Christmas gnomes learntalents.blogspot.com . 

Avoiding near by hovering death

 Wishing well for the world, so that you have a positive effect on the world, makes the world's inner nature have a curing effect on your life. 

About Memorial Words

 When someone close to you or some other person you value, has just died and you for the first times come to compare life without him/her to how magnifient good sides life with that person had, or how magnifient good sides that person had. Please plot those words down to be your memorial words for the person who passed away. If you write them down just with the words that you would naturally describe such thoughts with, that succeeds much better at capturing the value of such a oerson like is important from the point of view of sorrow.

About music when one is mourning

 If ordinary way of playing evergreen songs does not feel right when you are mourning, try playing more melancholically, in a more nature oriented way, respecting ideals, somewhat like wind waves tree branches.

About continuing to life after death

From my gnome skills text learntalents.blogspot.com

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G52. 27th of February 2021   About continuing to life after death

It appears that often life after death is much like life before death. If there was something unbearable, one must continue without it. If the unbearable, the cause of death was outside one's own life, like on a walk walking to a dangerous place and just continuing as if a piece of film had been refilmed as ordiry instead of as death. It is much like concentrating, like dedicating to the life at hand. 

If the cause of death or the und´bearable was a part of one's own life, one must let go of it and continue with the rest of one's loved things in life and replacing the lost by new met things, maybe like a twinding path tonew encounters etc.

If one cannot continue with one's family etx nearest things, one maybe dies and is left stationary at one place ponderin glike school aged about the possibilities of life left, like a date or a nice place to move to live in, etc, and maybe there one can continue life after death. 

If there is no such place found, maybe there is a tunnel to a dining hall witha fiesta, and maybe one can with food bear also other circumstancies. 

Making lighter and more livelier ins  spoiritual sense, makes one recover better and quicker and makes it possible to find more better options at life after death."

About memorial days

 "tiistai 29. joulukuuta 2020

About anniversaries and memorial days

 I am not sure of the English term, but some historical happenings are remembered each year the same day of the year. Some say that they then tend to have bad luck, but I guess that is so when one does not celebrate it at all or celebrates as if were even one's enthusuastic hobby. Often anniversaries and memorial days go well if one has the wish to celebrate soimething and so grasps the chance and celebrates a little bit the theme of the day too. Like for example looking it up in the encyclopedia and then wandering to similar subjects and one's own interests, or mentioning the theme of the day but also history at large and highlights of one's own hobbies I guess, so that it is mor erich with life and kind of mildened. If it is the memorial day of some war or accident, mentuoning something that helps to overcome such eases the atmosphere, like for example meditation and Buddhist good will toward all living beings eases away some of the danger of a nuclear war. Anyway, things go better if one has lots of other things in one's life too, healthy kind of life with wisdom of life."

A melody ofr the attempt ofundoing an atom bomb

 "An attemot at undoing an atom bomb

 A melody to my blog http://wakingfromdeath.blogspot.com , where the idea was to synchronoze lives afyter death so that one could continue life as if someplace had not been bombed. But it was based on wishing well in a civiliced way,so here is an attempt at building such good will, if such was lacking in the country due to not so good moral, or something of the kind. Here the idea was that one ought to keep distance, without being personally involved, and so it would be easier.

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15th of December 2021 in Espoo

If the world is of spirit, and some people are easier, more harmless have in the same world, since they wish well for the world at large and have enough wisdom, behave in civiliced ways, and some others are so crimunal in deeds, cause so much needless harm that it is difficult to live in the same world with them. Then one could try a hiersrgy: morally behaving wise enough high up and worst criminals deep down, all in their own worlds, and place so also the aeroplane which has a bomb. If the aeroplane flies underground for someone, the plane cannot bomb. It can bomb only those much below the plane's height, taking into account whom it bombs. So an atom bomb in a world made of spirit would bomb some and leave others unbombed. 

 

 One way to try to rise the level of civiliced behaviour is the Easy quivk school for animals, E11. at learntalents.blogspot.com 

About spirits of the dead and ghosts

 "Spirits of the dead, like wind or a white fabric, is different from ghosts, like an old times' human figure that has colours but which one can maybe part of the time partially see through. A ghost has liked to live in some place, still just lives there, even though all have not noticed him/her, but maybe he/she is an elderly person who just lives quietly and likes handiworks, maybe wants to keep up handiworks tradition and that tpogether with older age makes the clothes look unusual. If the world is of spirit, he/she is maybe sometimes with you in the same world, when you somehow like to live in the same kind of miljo as her/she, and at other times,when you live a different kind of life at different times of the day or night, he/she is maybe not there seen at all in your spheres of life.

Spirits of the dead are on the other hand spirits of the deceased that search for their place or is not fully satisfied with the environment in some respect and so goes away to some other place. (I guess that one usually says that they are restless spirits.) It can also be a far away person's way to remember a relative or the like person that one used to know. At least a few years ago in the birthdays of my mother and father in the previous evening at 23.00 and in the evening of the birthday at the same time there was a cold wind in my apartment and the door made sounds at the wind, even though ordinarily not at all, and the birthdays lacked the old familiar atmosphere that they celebrate their birthdays and in some moment remember also me.

I do not know how one could see ghosts, but I guess that it is via liking some place, being fascinated by it, a place that has a long history, that has been liked and valued.

I guess that spirits of the dead are easier to notice, but mostly as a feeling of cold, as such an atmosphere somewhere. For example some tens of centimeters near the wall of a graveyard (outside the graveyard - I guess that those are spirits of the dead that do not have a resting place inside the graveyard, for example dead animals). Also, somewhere where there are graves, if there is an open space like a lawn near by that one could wander in, it may be as if there would wander there some dim with an atmosphere connected to the graves, a little bit like that light fabric figure clishee but a milder version of it, or making one feel cold like the paws of mice. At the time of dark at the edges of car's lights where there is good light, may have like an atmosphere like cold and fleeing, maybe animals consider it a dangerous place to be. Likewise, if one has a bright light but no lights ourdoors, in the yeard if people have wandered back and forth with bright lights, and so somehow broken the atmosphere there, if you wander there more calmly, quietly and listen to the atmoshere or look from an open door in the light of the lights indoors, it is somehow an atmosphere like ´the spirits of the dead and makes on efeel cold and it is nice to go in.

I guess that these are dangerous like tendency to accidents is dangerous, somehow a poor base for life compared to one's ordinary, like when one is tired or burdened by something, which is in this case the lack of alive things or paying attention to former accident and/or former unwise ways and via that social influences from that error. Like thsi can also happen at`/around the same day of the year as someone died: the things is in many person's and animal's minds, and so the same kinds of thinsg get repeated but as milder, since it is a big thing ffor all, but this time with an emphazis on the death theme, while formerly I guess the problem was carelessness.

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Maybe a way to mourn an atom bomb

"I wondere if it could offer help in mourning an atom bomb, since the nature is often wise andhealthy, but anyway it is for cold climatyes only, because one needs to be familiar with the weather and it was snow melting from tree branches plus fog.

"Under the old pines wander in pair row sioldiers disappearing tyo fog. Now already gone." The last part is different ins tyle and not so exåpressive, so that one could just leave it away.

Here is it with the English lyrics:

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"24th January 2020   "Of learning from the nature, please read this:
"I am not sure of this, but my impression is that each weather, also in widely different climates, is best lived in a way which you find when you pay central attention to some fine whole of the nature, like an atmospheric branch in nature, that is especially spirited in it's view of how to live such wetaher and to which heights one's wisdom of life, skill, virtues of character and enjoyment of life could so rise,for example on some animal of the wilderness, and from siuch viewpoint pay attention to it's view on the ways of living: that is what is the way of living such wetahers and such temperatures, maybe such days, evenings, nights & mornings. Follow that advice and search for a new advice when the weather is clearly different.""
http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2018/09/gnomes-or-more-likelily-doing-things-in.html "

26th of January 2020   Pople can learn this way of learning from trees if TV weather report has (sometimes?) such pictures of trees etc when they tell of such weathers. And likewise in other things if there are good pictures of such in documentaries telling about the same things."
From  https://composingmelodies.blogspot.com/

2nd of January 2022   In the melody above the big things nesr by are the big drops of icy water faöling to one's neck, while the atom bomb is thought of as an affair of foreigners far away.

Mourning an atom bomb dedtruction near one's own loved ones is a big tough thing emotionally and isn't gonna put things right, so further away better to cobcentrate on arranging a good future for the world. Anywsy, in sn atom bomb explosion many lodt their lives and were wounded and some densely populated cultural place got destroyed, so it is a big thing to try to replace emotionally and in practice. In practice other towns will rise to the task but do it in their own ways, the world has changed like in hudtory often happens. In repairing emotionally tpuching things one ought to wish well for the world at large, eben slightly wishing well is better than not at all, since many things need correcting and wishing well in a spiritually beautiful healthy kind of way can help to correct the damage. Generally if a loss and/or a danger is big, one feels better if one takes careto not to worsen the situation at all, kind of trying to be a center for recovery, living a modest life that is good to vontinue along. Usually one can vhoose which group one identifies with and move to live there, kind of learning such life and such view to the world. 

A third view of how to undo big catastrophes

If the world is of spirit, and the life after death different for all but somewhat like ordinary life before death, then fates after an atom bomb can be different. If each one continues in a world, in a life that one somehow suits to, could ne divide people to thoise whose life continues as if there were no atom bomb, and to those who ought to have been destroyed by an atom bomb, which I guess to be a difference in moral and in skills, meaning that to whom the suitable level of and type of company does not bomb, and who would likely get bonbed?


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1st of April 2020   If life after death exists and is much like the life before death, so that one cannot say who died and who did not but instead people live at the same time as some others and at different time or different world than some others. It seems that for a person there is some space to live in and if that space ends the person dies, but in the life after death the person is in some space that is somehow suited for him/her, so that it is the same kind of life but some factor changed. So also one's own strategy of lofe affects what happens: did one choose a good benefical good willing civiliced (in civiliced wisdom there are the good answers to life's and world's questions that people want to teach to all the younger generation) that is good for possibilities of life, or not and dies sooner? So one could maybe choose with whom one'slife is synchronized and via civilized good will live so without big problems, and maybe also choose so with whom one is not synchronized and live separately as if in different worlds or at different time. Choosing profession, place to live in and other big choices in life also affect similarly: what kind of environment one lives in, whom one associates with and in what professions are they, which countries' cultural influencies one personally gets."
https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2020/02/some-additional-remarks-about-gnome.html

Mourning an atom bomb

Mourning an atom bomb is different from mourning a person's death,since the situation continues for years and it matters enermously, is the task  of the mourning to prevent further atom bombs. In the 1940's and later such mourning was lightened by the peace movement which made the situation less dangerous. But as peace is valued too much, it becomes difficult to prevent malicious deeds, and so across years there came a new danger of malicious deeds causing nuclear bombings. Peace as a value is important, but now we ought to solve also this other question.

It is likely that an atom bomb may cause deaths also furher away when people dependent on that area suffer a lack of luck, a lack of good environment. Also the changes in values may cause very different circumstancies for people far away.

Religions offer help in such situations and in danger of such. But people in different cultures are very different, and so religions in different places are different too, and fit together via civilized ways anmd civilized wisdom. 

How long mourning lasts

In thos neighbourhood lived a woman with a big black dog with a baby like charcater. In the summer they came out of their hot apartment to the shadow of the house and sat there cooling just about all days. Last year around New Year the dog died and she took immediately a new dog but spitz type crossbreed, quite dark in colour. She mourned all the year as if the death had just happened. Now that a year has passed, she is like a person who just came out of a room where someone just died, so much "over" it, so little. First she was in expression for months like out of her mind like in the first moment when a dear one had just died.
I wonder, did in the New Year someone else first die (got shot?), for examplesome younger generation person who would have wanted to get rid of this place and it's ways, and so the big black dog got a lack of luck from it and died without former warning, and so the woman's ordinary ways did not continue, somehow the spirit was lacking, the nice home like ways lacking, even though the environment was much the same.
Can it be that when people mourn the death of their child for a long time, they have gotten used to living just in home circles, being active, skilled, communicating, being rewarded for skills in just family circles, and have less skill and abilities in the wider world. And so if the child dies, their sphere of activity suffers a lot?
I have lost only more distant relatives andets, and tended to mourn only for a quite short period. I am not so social, I do not feel well and free in social relationships, and so when I get left alone, my other activities, my wider sphere of life starts running much better, so that ity carries my life and I am not left longing for the old times. Hobbies, outdoors, going to places, job, reading the newspaper, music, new peaople, new kinds of things to do and new content to life, new books.

A piece of melody

The first part in the melody is the most important. I am not so sure of the second and third part. The last part complates it.

About continuing onwards after the death of someone

"Wednesday, June 19, 2019

Sad, mourning

My Japanese spitz died almost two weeks ago. It was a very nice dog and 11 years old, interested in curing.

Now that I have begun to think that Vaapukka only died, it helps the sorrow to take more distance and to wish well, like in some spiritual context maybe, and to keep some idealistic or polite picture of him. And about these I tried to make the tune, to help also others in sorrow.

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30th of June 2019   I do not think it good at all to tidy very much at one time after the death of someone, but just to take some things with poor spirit away and on a good moment tidy or arrange something so that it is good to continue life.

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3rd of July 2019   Japanese spitz is an all-white dog breed, so maybe the tune does not fit other coat colours. It also may be that the tune relates to just Vaapukka's memory and not to other dogs. But the advices ought to be ok for others too."

https://composingmelodies.blogspot.com/


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5th of April 2020   My poodle asked what does it depend on who mours how much after the death of some close one. My impression is that those mourn more who make some thought error in looking at the situation. Like if someone lost a family member and still has the habit of commenting things to him/her, tends to forget that one is in differemnt company than before. Or then if one neglects some moral or the like and has an unsolved problem there. Or if one relied on that person in some question and is now in trouble because there is none to fill that task. generally several other persons together can each fill some part of such task, but mostly one anyway needs to sift one's life so that it is more centered on other areas of life.
 It is usually recommended that after a family member has died, one ought to move to live in some other apartmnent, in a place in which it is good to continue life. I think that one ought to wait so long that one can recognize if the apartment is good to live in or not, since in moruning that maybe does not work out so well, but maybe somebody else who understands about such sides of life could help in choosing the apartment and people help in carrying the furniture etc.

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9th of April 2021   My 12 years old apricot poodle Banjp died a little bit ovar two weeks ago.

" H62.   7th of April 2021   Today mornibg I was thinking of burying the deceased. It can have a poor or a serene atmosphere, depending on whether one thinks of rottenibg corpsds  which I guess is a question of too personal too close social distance to the deceased, or if one understands the neef of social distance  the impossibility of continuing life together, and just does one's part in helping, both in practicsl chores and in spirit, in wishibg well and telling of how thecdeceased ought to be able to continue life on obe's own  wishing the deceased well.

G, F, D, F, A, upper C, H, A,G,D, F

The melody is quite slow, kind of taking time for itself, but the A, G is quicker somewhat like hurried steps. (8.4.2021 The melody I made thinking of my apricot poodle Banjo who passed away two weeks earlier.) "   

 from my gnome skills text learntalents.blogspot.com 

4th of May 2021   " I 21.   When my poodle died, I at first started to rely on my old loved well working areas of life that I had had before I got my dogs. Meditation was now central of them: looking at lights, colours, patterns of wood, weathers, the coming spring, possibilitues of life, tuning somewhat toward sporty mood but sensitively taking into account the needs of mourning. So in it I had basic life that carries somewhat, and my posture was not so stuck but instead open to new things. "   learntalents.blogspot.com

17th of June 2924   If you feel that you would lije to continue a somewhat quiet kind of everyday life, you might want to read my long long blog text about the skills for a Christmas gnome like life, see LearnTalents.BlogSpot.com . But it has been written for a world wide audience, for people dreaming of a dream job, etc

About the possibility of avoiding and in theory cancelling large scale catastrophes

monday 28.1.2019If one has of death the view that after death there is life after death that is very much of the same kind as ordinary life before death but some big factor of usually the nearest environment has changed like closest humnan relationships, work or where one lives even though those were the same for years, and there was no other road for change than for oneself to die from those closest and for them to die from oneself, or the like, but that each one could continue one's own life and for some much more distant people, who do not know you so well, they could all be in the same world, but it would not affect anything, unless someone of them got an important job or the like. <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<





If things are that way, a human (and animal too) can be syncronized with some kind of people and some kinds of states of affairs in the world and live at the same time as they and often quite near them.Or then not so, so that they then will live in separate worlds. If things were this way, could one by adjusting such synchronity from oneself choose for example that some big catastrophe did not exist or would not come?
Synchrony is likelily connected with social loyality and being fit together and one's needs in life being fit together, which is often easier via social distance. And partly it is connected with to which things, values etc one is attached to and what so as a consequence is the amount of how lucky you are and of how unlucky you are ineach choice in life and in each subject: where would you naturally continue in your life and what kind of sphere of life would you get to know, to whose company would you attach yourself emotionally but without forcing him/her.

1.2.2019
"But interesting though anyway, even though difficult to know and that is why it is so difficult to learn, but anyway if one could make that work, could one in theiry cancel a the destruction created by a nuclear bimb by it? One would look, listen to one's sensations and environmental conditions, the spirit of the times, that in which way one could be synchronized with the destructed area's inhabitants and propably it's animals good life too so that their lives would feel peacefully continuing and also otherwise there would be the atmosphere of peace in the world, peace in the country and in the world, and then one would choose that, would make it a possible choice for theothers too, a possible road for the society, without being too conbcretical in what happened when they from your point of view cahnged to life after death and why the lives continued in the same wolrd, so distance is needed and some kind of arranging things well without demanding machine like concretical dynamics from the world in spiritual kind of matters like this too.But usually there has beens ome reason for a bomb, also some individuals causing it, so that maybe it would not be possible to continue with the whole destroyed group but instead often in such situattions some of them should be left dead or at least for the trime being to smaller part in them taking part in the affairs of our world, for example much more distant looking from our point of view.

7. February 2019
I think that inventing atomic bomb brought big trouble to most or all countries military traditions and traditional views about upkeeping peace, about the role of each thig in the world, about creating military force and skills needed in life, about protecting one's country and bringing up children, also about international relationships and how far one ought to go in each thing. In that sense people have been at loss for decades and it would be a great relief if nuclear threath would not be so enermous compared to other things, which is one motivation to think about solution possibilities outside the ordinary picture of the world. But this method here resembles somewhat how prayer affects: there is one's own way of living, idelas, trying to reach for better world, a new beginning, praying, relying in the wiser ones, adopting new habits, civilized main course via which lives usually go better, etc what is usually connected with prayer and which can be the factors that helpthe world to better road - so this attempt could maybe fit with traditional culture, but more like praying and trying toward better before anything catastrophic has happened, or when one worries.

10. February 2019
If oen would attempt this at the time of a nuclear power plant accident, then if onewould take care of ordinary safety measures well, one couldlike when doiung handiworks listen to one's sensations and observations of the kind "hhere one could well get this or then also such or such" and so one could go along some promising possibility,like managing to get the fuel sticks to separate water pools, for example with the help of automatics, like this one could go with some option the same way one can with poorly functioning machine try if this would work out or that and when something seems to go well from somewhere, pick it, partly it is a question of the way and spirit of trying and of what one does and of praying, of the will to safeguard the environment's inhabitants and animals & plants, and partly good quality professional work.

11.2.2019
If one catches the idea in this and then gets tired and is unlucky then. Then it is good to now that thius kind of things at the outer border of one's skills, don't work out well as labour when tired or when one is without touch of how to do it. Instead when one wnats to try them one should invest in cultivating fracturelessness : nature, music, religions, pleasant free time, maybe eating so that one is warm and full of good food, the fracturelessness of healthy ways of living, good mood and good will & beautiful values in the world.

4.7.2019  "30th of June 2019   If the world is of spirit, you can sometimes when you happen to meet something gnome like in your life, in your environment, you can maybe wander to a gnome like world for a while, like for example meeting the weather when you go out and wandering for a while in a world of weather and nature, maybe adding wisdom of life too. Likewise if you run into trouble, that may keep you lingering on a not so nice perspective, as if all were spirit. But if you search for things that usually help out of trouble, like music, religion, better life, civilized wisdom, maybe the medias, then you typically can wander to the worlds they create and leave your troubles behind. Often this demands some energy, so having eaten, preferable good tasting food, often helps doing it's part and bringing life to a gnome like direction, kind of wirh less nuisancies or with less burden from them, more fractureless, more free to invest on hobbies, personal interests, etc, each having theirmoment, their worlds, which can become parts of your daily life and if you much like them somehow parts of your character too."

So, if there is some atom bomb or the like, could it work out that you would do something, like a songs in a CD in car radio or reading your work papers, that usually affects life strongly and positively, bringing it's own current, it's own world and continuing the ordinary everyday life without the atm bomb. I mean: could you so change to another kind of world, to another kind of situation?

27.8.2019
"After California earthquake?

In the news some time there was a map of USA but without the Californian peninsula. Had the predicted big earthquake happened and was it caused by a nuclear bomb? I tried to compose a piece about continuing onwards.

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1.11.2019  Today, a day before the memorial day of the deceased, this year comes strongly to minds that there maybe was a huge earthquake in California last New Year. The atmosphere at the Savonlinna town center today was as if people had been thinking of California and kind of dark like when thinking of the dead. But the civilized objective perspective of the capital district, which wishes well on a general level in the world, and the spirituality there that is along the same lines, these bring a lightening feeling as if there never was such huge earthquake in california.

Second view:
30.12.2019   Also animals can have a more spiritual, more tale like view of the world we live in, somewhat like Russian tales or people sometimes seeing bears etc and ordinarily not, as if they were momentarily in different worlds. It is my impression that animals like my textsi http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2018/09/gnomes-or-more-likelily-doing-things-in.html and http://kalevalainenglish.blogspot.com/ and might in connection with them be interested in working for nature protection, for example for cancelling ctastrophes.

5.8.2020   Something about atom bombs also in the third part of my gnome skills text http://learntalents.blogspot.com . (About cure attempts to illnesses etc my Finnish blog http://parantamisesta.blogspot.com of which there is the partial Englaish translation at http://curingguesses.blogspot.com . )

27.8.2020   Undoing an atom bomb or the like would so work via individual life after death, separately for each individual and spread to the emvironment via learning and social influences, and not as a group via priest as far as I know

About the way of looking at the picture

 I have thought as a viever a person who thinks oijoi I maybe soon die. From such point of view the picture opens much more easily. An ordinary facial expression like in fact communication in conversations about this advice.